FUCK R KELLY first of all, not literally because we all know I’m way too old for him but really, fuck him he’s like the favorite uncle that nobody tells on even though he is known for being the family pedophile….everyone got one in your family, to use a quote of one my best buddies “Make no mistake about it”. It doesn’t have to be an uncle per say…I’m just using “favorite uncle” to keep it simple to understand.
It’s been a few weeks since the R Kelly documentary dropped…I didn’t watch it, I didn’t need to…Anyone who knows me, knows I refer to R Kelly as a pedophile because that is exactly what he is. When I was in my early 20’s this shit all broke out in the media…the marriage to Aaliyah who was a minor and the pissing on some minor he was having sex with…he grossed me the fuck out from day one. We didn’t even have social media platforms like we do today but I knew he was a pedophile and I wasn’t even that bright back then.
Now Let’s talk about YOU & ME, our sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, cousins, mothers, fathers, boyfriends, girlfriends, grandparents, babysitters…fuck let’s not forget priests, counselors, teachers… let’s address the elephant in the room…What responsibility do you /we take ownership in all of this? I mean we are grown adults yet I have witnessed grown adults argue on social media over R Kelly…Some people were literally sticking up for a pedophile, justifying his actions and actually saying shit like “it won’t stop me from listening to his music”….Really? That’s where your heart is…all the music in the world that has been made and YOU literally will say this, out loud in support of a pedophile. Fucking Wow is all I can say… The list of people I’d leave my kids with does not include YOU.
There are families/communities that accept pedophiles. I know that hurts to read but hey, it’s the truth. They are no different than the fans glorifying R Kelly. Some sit around and whisper about this shit but yet they still have these people around their children, in their homes, watching their kids, inviting them to family functions, making toasts with them, laughing and partying with them…What the fuck is wrong with you all.
NOBODY comes forward, they just sit around and gossip, wait no not gossip…they sit around and talk about how so and so likes little girls or how so and so was caught touching this one or that one, or how so and so is a pervert. I’m guessing some of you reading this blog have done exactly this or knows someone who does this.
Here are a few tips…
If your new boyfriend disappears in the middle of the night and he’s gone longer than the required time to take a piss…you may be living with a fucking predator. Stop turning a blind eye to this shit, you are fucking up a kids childhood just to have a fucking man. React, overreact, get up and check where he is, don’t fucking pretend that you believe he’s taking a long ass piss…save your fucking child. Even if you’re wrong at least you fucking checked when he’s missing in the middle of the night. TALK to your kids about this shit…like seriously talk to your fucking kids. A rule of thumb in my house is that my daughter has to be fully clothed head to toe when there are men in the house…ANY man and that includes her brothers, uncles, cousins, family friends etc. No booty shorts, no low cut tops, no see through night dresses, no robes without clothes on underneath them…the list goes on and on and on and she follows them rules and she knows why she has to follow them. Not saying I am letting pedophiles in my house, I’m saying pedophiles are always in disguise.
If your uncle is being too flirtatious with your daughter, complimenting her on her body parts, looking at her on the sly with lust in his eyes, trying to spend time with her when you are not around, disappearing when he’s over to visit when your daughter is not in your sight, if she’s distant from the “favorite” uncle, if she doesn’t want to go for sleepovers at friends or with family members…fuck, maybe there is an underlying reason…check in with your kids and ask the tough questions…don’t ignore your gut feeling.
I think you may be getting the point right now…let’s move the fuck on.
I’ll end this blog here by saying this…If you can fight and argue with people about R Kelly and say shit like…”I don’t care what he did it ain’t gonna stop me from listening to his music” or “I wasn’t there” or “the parents are to blame” or “well people knew and didn’t do anything about it, it’s not my issue” or “what he did has nothing to do with me” or…or…or… What I am really interpreting from that kind of mindset is that YOU would not come forward if you knew this was going on to someone else…YOU would not tell on your “favourite” uncle, YOU would turn a blind eye, YOU wouldn’t protect an innocent child…YOU would just sit back and pretend nothing was happening…and that’s a fucking scary thought but that’s how I see you now ~Holla
Truth 👊👊👊